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Lisa09
Joined: 21 Mar 2009
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| Posted: 26 Mar 2009, 5:19 am Post subject: help |
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hi, im completely gay and i get asked at work if ive found a boyfriend yet, why not etc etc. if guys ask me out and i have to say i have trust issues or im happy being single but i feel completely fake. i hate lying.
how do other people deal with this? have you become comfortable lying to your friends, family and co workers every day?
i feel really sick of pretending to be the "straight girl still mending a broken heart" |
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gennee
Joined: 15 Sep 2005
Posts: 402
Interests: reading, writing, poetry, transgender issues, gospel, veteran's issues,jazz,education,religion,literature,Native-American and African culture,lighthouses,trails,castles,tractor trailers, playwriting, biograhies
Physical Location: new york
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| Posted: 28 Mar 2009, 8:31 pm Post subject: Re: help |
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| Lisa09 wrote: | hi, im completely gay and i get asked at work if ive found a boyfriend yet, why not etc etc. if guys ask me out and i have to say i have trust issues or im happy being single but i feel completely fake. i hate lying.
how do other people deal with this? have you become comfortable lying to your friends, family and co workers every day?
i feel really sick of pretending to be the "straight girl still mending a broken heart" |
Lisa, be happy with who you are. I don't know your situation with your family but if you feel you need to come out do so when you feel comfortable. I see that you know who you are. That is wonderful! You're a flower that's ready to bloom.
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Lisa09
Joined: 21 Mar 2009
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| Posted: 30 Mar 2009, 5:00 am Post subject: Re: help |
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| gennee wrote: | | Lisa09 wrote: | hi, im completely gay and i get asked at work if ive found a boyfriend yet, why not etc etc. if guys ask me out and i have to say i have trust issues or im happy being single but i feel completely fake. i hate lying.
how do other people deal with this? have you become comfortable lying to your friends, family and co workers every day?
i feel really sick of pretending to be the "straight girl still mending a broken heart" |
Lisa, be happy with who you are. I don't know your situation with your family but if you feel you need to come out do so when you feel comfortable. I see that you know who you are. That is wonderful! You're a flower that's ready to bloom.
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Thanks Gennee. i guess theres no rush. maybe confidence just takes longer to come around with some ppl more than others.. i appreciate your advice.xx |
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