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| Coming Out
Research has shown that the majority of gay and lesbian youth choose to disclose their sexual orientation to their mothers first, as opposed to their fathers or to both parents simultaneously. They also often find different ways of dealing with their mothers and fathers, tending to use more indirect disclosure styles with fathers than with mothers. Psychologists theorize that this effect is heavily influenced by differences in maternal-paternal parental closeness, but further research is necessary to corroborate this theory. Questioning and gender nonconforming youth, many of whom later identify as homosexual, often report less satisfiction with their social relationships than other youth. They may come to feel that maintaining long-lasting friendships with same-sex heterosexual peers, while ignoring or lying about their sexuality, demeans the authenticity of friendship itself. Or a closeted homosexual youth may feel that the illusion of heterosexuality is of paramount importance. Even in adulthood, homosexuals have been found to be more likely to opt out of reporting a hate crime if it was motivated by their sexual orientation, presumably to avoid making their personal lives public business. Conclusion Coming out is generally thought of as an important passage to maturity in the glbtq community, an acknowledgment of one's sexuality and a necessary prerequisite to accepting one's place in the community. In practice, however, coming out is not a single life event, but a gradual and lifelong process through which homosexuals integrate their personal identities with their public personae. Most gay people are "out" to some of their family members, friends, and acquaintances, but usually not to all of them. Even after accepting one's homosexuality (and thus coming out to oneself), the decision to come out to others remains a vital question that usually has to be answered on an individual basis.
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| Author: | Tamashiro, Dustin | |||
| Entry Title: | Coming Out | |||
| General Editor: | Claude J. Summers | |||
| Publication Name: | glbtq: An Encyclopedia of Gay, Lesbian,
Bisexual, Transgender, and Queer Culture |
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| Publication Date: | 2004 | |||
| Date Last Updated | November 3, 2005 | |||
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